Happy Halloween Everyone!

I'm pretty tired, but I wanted to wish everyone a horrifying and spooktacular All Hallow's Eve. I'm excited to go out, see other people's costumes and just chill all day in my costume at work. I couldn't really find anything great specifically on Halloween other than what I already posted from Nightmare Before Christmas, but this one comes kind of close.

Hodgepodge

Remember this category from Jeopardy? I think a lot of my posts are of this nature. I have a jumble of thoughts coming at you because I don't have time this morning to fully formulate the more creative posts that I have in mind. I can't believe that I'm still here posting nearly everyday after four months. And I'm surprised that I haven't run out of stuff to bring up. Sometimes I want to hold back thoughts or comments that I have from real conversations for the blog. Isn't that lame? And then I have to remind myself that real interaction with people is preferrable to publishing in the blogosphere. Still though...doesn't mean it doesn't come up sometimes for me.

Anyway...so remember the Jena 6 story? Here is a follow up to that story. And if this article is accurate, then it's also probably the reason why those events seemed to flare up so quickly, and fade just as fast. That is, if it's true.

How about an interesting article about the Hollywood 10 (those infamous people in Hollywood who were blacklisted in the 1950s, or thereabouts)? It's kind of long, but if you read the first several paragraphs you'll pick up some interesting talking points.

Here is a post on some polls looking at Hillary vs. any Republican candidate. This one is Hugh Hewitt's take on the same poll. It feels impossible to get a clear idea of who is coming out ahead in reality when you look at the polls. Pretty much on the Democrats side it seems that Hillary is the clear winner, or will be. The GOP picture is much more muddled. Thompson is ahead in some polls, Giuliani in others, but wait...Romney is leading the charge in the critical Iowa and New Hampshire primaries.

It's my goal to use the words "heretofore" and "theretofore" more in my regular vocabulary.

At the evening session for Stake Conference, Elder Cook mentioned visiting some of the people ravaged by the fires down in San Diego. He talked about trials having two primary outcomes, 1) helping us to better appreciate the Atonement, and 2) refining and preparing us for exaltation. Through no fault of their own these people have experienced some intense personal trauma. Elder Cook recalled the thought espoused by the Lord that the rain will fall on both the just and unjust. And then having all of this in mind got me to thinking about institute this past week and the primary emphasis was talking about Christ being the light, and how he does that.

One of the stories we read about was when Jesus healed the blind man on the Sabbath. The disciples asked who had sinned that the man was born blind, him or his parents? Then Jesus answered, "Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him." I had never really thought much more about this verse other than it applying specifically to that situation, but isn't it the case that this same principle would be true of all trials that face us? A lot of times the resulting difficulties we have in life aren't directly attributable to one person, even ourselves. Sometimes they just happen, but always the purpose is the same - that the works of God should be made manifest. In one way or another, I really believe that is the case.

In light of my own personal circumstances, the trials I've been facing recently have had those outcomes as mentioned by Elder Cook. And in a lot of unexpected ways, I have seen His works manifested. In others, I'm still waiting to see it. Whatever the outcome, I know it will happen.

Sunday Thoughts

This weekend my stake president, Scott Muir, was released from his calling after serving for nine years. At first, I was upset that I was going to miss Strung Out to go to the adult session on Saturday night. Maybe not upset, but a little disappointed that I wasn't going to see a show that I had been planning on seeing for a couple of months now. Yesterday I was kind of edgy because of some family stuff, and going to that session last night really put me in a better place. I was really grateful to have gone.

I hadn't thought at all about any of the feelings I would be having with his release. I don't think that I've had another leader in the church that I've known for so long who has served so faithfully over such a long term as President Muir. 10 years ago next month I was baptized a member of the church and the following Christmas, he gave me my first set of scriptures. He interviewed me for the Melchizedek Priesthood, the mission, and endowment. He set me apart as a full time missionary. Later he interviewed me for my calling as elders quorum president, and executive secretary. I've had a few interviews to renew my temple recommend with him, and have had numerous personal priesthood interviews with him. I think I mentioned that earlier this year he gave me one of the most amazing blessings I've ever had. I've stood with him in holy circles as he set apart Michael, Annalee, and Kira before they went to serve their missions. So this morning when he was released I felt a flood of love and gratitude for him and everything he has done for me fill my heart.

I didn't think that any of this would be emotional at all for me. That hadn't crossed my mind once, but when I heard him bear his final testimony as my stake president, I felt so grateful to have been so blessed by his wonderful example.

This weekend was really great. I had fun on Friday night, and Saturday, but I'm glad everything revolved around stake conference and the reorganization of the stake presidency. Elder Quentin Cook of the Quorum of the 12 Apostles was assigned to help with the reorganization of the stake presidency, as well as Elder Whiting of the 70. I really learned a lot from their words. I especially grew fond of Elder Cook. He doesn't seem to mince words in his talks and I appreciate that approach. Something that was touched upon throughout the weekend and I feel like was a theme for the last General Conference was the idea of not allowing ourselves to get distracted by things that aren't necessarily bad things, but that aren't the best things. Quoting Elder Packer, Elder Cook said that, "we get caught up in the thick of thin things."

I feel like that is the story of my life. I have no regrets at all about who I'm spending time with or anything like that, but I feel like I'm not maximizing on the time that I do have. I don't think I really need to elaborate on this anymore other than to say that I just hope that I can make the most with what I've been given. I am so deeply grateful for the people in my life, for the gospel, and the opportunities I have to grow and improve myself. I know that we have the fulness of truth and the greatest opportunity for everlasting joy within the parameters of the church and the Lord's gospel. I'm so grateful to know and feel all of that. And I'm so deeply appreciative of wonderful people like President Muir who give of themselves so fully and without any need for temporal rewards. That is someone who is maximizing on his opportunities to be Christ-like and I hope I can be that person someday.

Funny Headline

Yesterday while walking through Barnes and Noble, on the cover of people magazine I saw this headline:

Isn't that kind of a big oversight? I got what it said the first time I saw it, but I liked how it could very easily be taken another way. Am I alone on this?

So I guess when I get tagged in somebody's blog, that means that I'm supposed to follow up and do whatever it is that the other person was doing. I think Karen only included me because she knows that I sometimes do these things. Anyone notice that as she has been more sleepy lately, her comedy level has increased, as well as her feistiness? Anyway...so here I go. I don't know anyone else that would do this. Let's try Greg?

1. Three biggest fears? bunny rabbits, kittens, and babies
2. When was the last time you danced? A week ago last Saturday at a random party in LA.
3. Do you creep on stranger's blogs? Regularly. How do you think I know Karen?
4. If you could go back to be any age for a day, what age would you be and why? 18. No real sense of responsibilities, first time living away from home, and old enough to enjoy it, and recent enough that I can still remember all the good stuff.
5. Are you a good liar? I don't know. I think I can hold my own.
6. Do you judge someone when you can tell they've had elective cosmetic surgery? I don't think I'm very good at being able to tell when it has been done.
7. If you have children, what's one thing that you always told yourself you'd never do when you had kids? (Psst! You. Yah, you. The one without kids. Guess what? You'll probably do it.) I don't know...beat them? I'm pretty sure that I'll never do that.
8. What's something that totally grosses you out? Watching TLC when they're doing surgeries. I guess I'm squeamish when it comes to that stuff.
9. Do you ever delete forwards without reading them? All the time.
10. Do you ever lie to get out of obligations? Yes, a lot of times without hesitation. So come to think of it, I can be a pretty good liar because I kind of have no conscience about it sometimes.
11. Consider your body weight and your yearly income at their present states. Would you rather be 200 pounds heavier and $200,000 richer or stay at your present states? I'm going to leave Karen's answer...Stay at present state. But if I were 200 pounds heavier and $200,000 richer, I could hire a personal trainer and lose it.
12. When was the last time you bought a pair of shoes and what were they? I'm going to say that I'm planning on buying a pair of Chuck Taylor's today or tomorrow. Probably tomorrow...for my costume. Yup, I'm committed.
13. The Olympics. Take them or leave them? LOVE THEM. Will watch as much as humanly possible over the course of the two weeks. I think they have the coolest stories ever.
14. What's your favorite accent? An Argentine woman speaking spanish. It's beautiful
15. What's your favorite scent? Chocolate chip cookies baking.
16. Gum or breath mints? Gum all the way.
17. If you could look like any celebrity, who would it be? Tom Brady because he freakin' scored Bridget Moynahan AND Gisele.
18. If you had the chance of looking like said celebrity in exchange for your thumbs would you do it? Nope. Not that concerned with scoring with chicks who probably have serious issues.
19. Do you religiously wear sun screen? Religiously do not wear it.
20. Do you generally trust people/their motives or doubt people/their motives? Probably too much so.
21. Would you describe yourself as a complicated person or is what you see what you get? I like to think that I'm pretty transparent.
22. Do you watch what you eat? I try to. I don't always do too well.
23. Do you watch what other people eat? Only when I think that what they're eating is strange or their eating habits confuse me.
24. Do you judge how other people raise their kids? I don't really think about it too much.
25. Do you judge people who dress poorly? Absolutely. What are some people thinking when they go out sometimes? I get so confused when people put on clothes and it's completely ridiculous and they look in a mirror and think to themselves...awww yeah.
26. Do you judge people who are homely? Not much more than, hey, look at that really ugly person.
27. Do you judge people who are overweight? Not usually. Obese? Yes.
28. Your interest in politics: High, Medium-High, Medium, Medium-Low, Low, Obsolete? Probably Medium-High, bordering on high, but I guess that's what the designation is for. I guess it's relative right? Do I listen to talk radio a lot and read political commentary everyday? Yes. I guess that would be high then.
29. Favorite song of all time? Matchbook by Strung Out. I don't think that song will ever get old for me.
30. Acoustic or electric? Electric. Where would the 80s be without it? I'm right with you on a lot of these answers, as you might have noticed.
31. If you were a hermit, would you shave? Yes. I've never gotten accustomed to letting the beard flow.
32. If you could shave your head without your significant other throwing a complete hissy, would you? I totally just did and she's cool with it. Yeah!
33. What was your least favorite age? 13.
34. How many times a day do you check your email? How about I leave gmail open all day at work because I feel like I might miss out on something, regardless of the fact that nobody does anything in middle of the day on a weekday?
35. Are you in a tiff with anyone right now? The Evil Monkey.

Rock Me Amadeus

I was afraid that Ralph had stopped doing these things, but today I got a nice little treat for tuning in while at work. Apparently Mel Gibson's house was in danger of going up in flames, and as the concerned citizen went to check on the house he saw that the fire was a BLOCK BEYOUND PETRAEUS!

If you haven't heard the radio segment then this will make absolutely no sense.

Southern California Fires

I don't think I've ever seen so much fire stuff as we have had this week. It's like everything teamed up for this week to be as devastating as possible. It is a little surreal to come out and every day it smells like smoke, ashes cover your car, and the sky is overcast not because of clouds, but because of so much smoke in the air. What I think is really interesting is that the swath of fire damage is supposedly very comparable to what was inflicted with hurricane Katrina, but in no way do you ever get the sense that people are panicking like they did with that. Hugh Hewitt has an interesting post about why that might be the case. Basically it seems to come down to the response of local, state, and federal agencies and the fact that the leaders involved are much more competent compared to those who ran the Katrina debacle over in Louisiana.

As funny as it might be to see him on television acting in the capacity of Governor for California, Arnold has really handled the crisis well. From the media to the people dealing with everything that's going on, there is not the same sense of hysteria that we saw a couple of years ago. We're pretty fortune here in Orange County because the narrow strip of non-fire area seems to be nestled right up against the coast where we happen to be. I'm still amazed though that for the most part people are going to work and everything is business as usual.

This is completely unrelated, but here is a really interesting article on the economy and how the country is not in a recession. I think one of the most obvious indicators is the fact that while the dollar has lost some value recently and gas prices continue to rise, nobody is really complaining about it. Or maybe we all do, but it's not changing our way of living at all. It's more a nuisance than a real concern and that tells you that while we might have to wait a month or two before we can buy the 72" plasma television, the higher gas prices are by no means keeping us from coming in to work.

Dating...Lists...Etc...

I don't know if I mentioned this on my blog yet, but I tend to look at a lot of things in terms of resumes and work experience lately. One of the things that I've been thinking about is that people should have dating resumes. Married people, stay with me on this one because I know you may not feel like this applies as much to you. I told Karen about this and then she just said, eharmony baby, and then I felt dumb. But I don't want just a personality match or a match on common interests. I think previous dating history/experience really goes a long way in determining the kind of person that gets into the next relationship. Granted, people don't always take away the lessons that are supposed to be learned from the experiences that they have, but having those opportunities at least gets them to the point where they at least have a chance to mature. Right?


In any case, being 27 years old and single in the mormon dating world makes me wary of the kind of people that I want to date. I don't want to date someone who hasn't had any significant relationships. I want to date someone who can be serious about dating, but who isn't totally traumatized by their past. This is where the resume comes in. Previous work experience, so to speak, would be highly relevant. I could see things like relationship stability, or lack thereof. It's helpful to know what a person has been through. It says a lot about what that person will eventually be. Agreed?


Anyway, as I ponder these things I've come across some interesting posts on relationships or dating. I've heard of some lists that people have and I think at this point in my life, lists are no longer relevant. Mostly it just becomes a huge epic poem about some person that just isn't going to materialize anymore. Or something where expectations are entirely too lofty considering that as an older young single adult, you should be broadening your horizons not narrowing them, given that the pool of eligible singles is shrinking over time. I think having this rigid outline limits us in our ability to see what might be sitting right before us. Not that a person should ever settle, but I think the biggest thing is that you just flat out don't know in 10 years what is going to be most important to you because you don't know how your life experiences will dictate your understanding of what is most valuable. What you thought was so important 1 year or 5 years ago probably isn't exactly the same as what it is now. Have you guys ever seen the movie Singles? It's a perfectly 90s movie about relationships and the character played by Bridget Fonda starts with a huge list of what it is that she's looking for in a guy. And then at the end she cuts it down to someone just saying "gesundheit" after a sneeze, although "bless you" is more preferrable. But check out this list and draw your own conclusions about the kind of person who makes a list like this:


The List
1. Over 6'2'
2. 180-230 lbs
3. Good job, over $80k/year
4. nice car
5. ready to buy a house
6. health insurance (must include dental, chiropractic, and optometry)
7. prays everyday, twice
8. reads scriptures
9. likes the Beatles
10. honest, chaste, benevolent, virtuous
11. Creative/artistic ability
12. plays guitar
13. strong sexual appetite
14. sensitive and understands my needs
15. good listener and communicator
16. social and likes parties
17. laid back and go with the flow
18. Take control kind of guy, type A
19. Nurturing and good father, loves kids
20. Able to get along with my parents
21. Huge life insurance policy
22. high job security
23. 4 year degree, hopefully MD or JD
24. can change oil, flat tire, hang heavy mirrors on walls
25. can cook me meals on a whim
26. loves to go shopping with me
27. hard working
28. magnifies his calling
29. good dresser
30. goes to the gym frequently
31. 401k
32. Must be a gift giver
33. Loves to travel


The blogger with this list doesn't have permalinks for her posts, or else I would have just linked it. But is that list asking a lot? To her credit, she comes to the same conclusion that lists are limiting. Another friend of mine gave me a list and hers was even more stringent. I thought this post by Farrah was especially insightful. I guess I've just been thinking a lot about relationships lately. For me, it had been a long time since I've been involved and I had forgotten how cool it is that it requires a person to open up and be less self-absorbed. It's stretching and rewarding all at the same time. These are just some thoughts.

Trapped In The...Revisited

I'm sure you're all familiar with R. Kelly's Trapped In The Closet.


But have you heard this version?

I just don't want to eat liver! Can you believe this guy has made his living on doing these kinds of things?

Speaking Of States Of Emergency

So there are about 10,000 fires burning 80 million acres. It's pretty insane. It got me out of work and I was pretty happy about that all day long, and then the opening prayer at FHE got me thinking about the people affected by the fire negatively and how there are some who are displaced, who no longer even have homes. I just can't believe how unpredictable life can be, that from one minute to the next you can be riding high and then hit so hard that you can't even remember all the stuff you were so excited about just the day before.

We were watching the news for a minute and the broadcaster mentioned that additional police were coming to guard evacuated neighborhoods to protect the empty houses from looters. Then Caitlin made my favorite comment of the day which was something to the effect of throwing those dirtbags into the fire. It was the quite sudden leap to extreme violence that caught me unawares, although it is a logical one. What kind of person would do that to someone else? When the playing field is completely altered people will unabashedly commit the most heinous acts.

A couple weeks ago I went to lunch with a bunch of people from work and somehow one of the guys we were with began talking about how he attended USC at the time the riots in LA over racial tension broke out. They sat and watched from their roofs the dozens of fires that spewed smoke into the Los Angeles skyline and listened to the multiple pops of gunfire going off. He said the weirdest thing was driving through LA one day and the image that he would never forget was seeing people organized and patiently filing in line to loot a large video store in his neighborhood. People lined up to get in, grabbed whatever they wanted, then quietly exited the store. He said those was no hysteria with those people, everyone just seemed to have the common understanding that you were going to the store and you were there to pick up as much as you could carry in your two hands. No running, screaming, or pushing. If you wanted your stuff you just calmy picked it up. Isn't that weird? Can you imagine seeing such an unusual scene?

Even though people act without regard for others and even if their behaviors are completely unjustified, when the playing field is altered and the circumstances are unfamiliar, expect different behaviors. I'm not saying it's right, it's just what happens.

This Is Halloween

Guys. I got my costume. It happened a lot quicker than I had expected it to. And it was more expensive than I was planning on, but I think it was well worth it. I went to this store in Orange called Flashbacks. What's interesting is that I remember going to that store a couple of times in high school, and this afternoon when I went with Greg after lunch, the lady was playing the same band I remember listening to in that store when I went there in high school - Face to Face. I love that place though. It's this little vintage store and you can find some real treasures there.

If you didn't know, there are some fires here in Southern California. Actually some that are pretty much in my backyard. I went to work this morning and I was hoping that I would be able to get out of it, but I didn't want to be lame and leave just because I didn't feel like being there. So I piddled around for about a half hour before I'd put it to my boss and just tell her my situation, where I lived, etc. and see what she would have to say. Before I could get everything out she asked me, "well what are you doing here? I was glued to the TV all night, you better go home!" Free day! Yahoo!

And the best of all scenarios occurred. The fire is close enough to warrant me taking the day off, but not so close that I actually have to evacuate or be worried. So I went to lunch with some friends, and got my costume at Flashbacks.

Anyway...the woman working there is probably in her 50s, had on a blonde wig with some pink highlights, black-rimmed glasses, red lipstick, and white dress a la the rockabilly style. So she saw me gathering my accessories and some other kids were trying on some wigs and they were laughing with one another and she walks up to one of them and pulls the wig off and gives it to me and tells me, "oh this is perfect! You could trim the bangs a little bit and put on some black eye-liner." She knew exactly what I was piecing together, and I just loved her for it. When I asked her for what kind of shirt I should get, she confirmed my sentiments saying, "it doesn't matter just as long as whatever you get you cut off the sleeves. I was cutting off my sleeves for ten years." So I will have some pics for you guys this weekend, or next week.

Du Juor Means Friendship

Boy bands are awesome. Even before we have the obvious birth of the boy band with New Kids On The Block, we've been delighted through the years with the likes of The Monkees, The Bee Gees, even Jackson Five. Today I come with a serious matter to discuss with you - who's better? 'N Sync or Backstreet Boys?

I know someone and she gets me music. We will leave her unnamed so that if someone someday wants to pin something on her, it won't be because of this blog entry. Last week I asked her for 'N Sync's Greatest Hits. She didn't bat an eye, downloaded the cd, and got it to me. Then a day or two later I asked for Backstreet's Greatest Hits. Then she laughed at me, and teased me, asking me if I also wanted 98 degrees or O-Town, as if those guys are even on par with either of those two megastar bands. Another friend I had did a similar thing. I mentioned I got the 'N Sync album, and then laughed at me when I said I wanted the Backstreet one also. And it bothered me both times. So much so that it's keeping me awake at night. Not really, but enough to blog about it.

I feel like people who are pro-'N Sync, but look down on BSB are snobs about it. I think this stems from the fact that Justin Timberlake emerged from 'N Sync and has really established himself as a force to be reckoned with in the world of entertainment. This, in turn, makes people feel legitimized and validated for their appreciation of 'N Sync. But the fact that no individual star surfaced from the BSBs makes them somehow of less worth in the world of badass boy bands. Yup, I realize the juxtaposition of those words and believe it to be entirely appropriate. Anyway, I contend that the BSBs have a better collection hits than does 'N Sync, and therefore the better band. Just because JT managed to have a solid post-boy band career is no reason to look down upon the Backstreet Boys. Look, Ricky Martin was in Menudo, but that doesn't mean that I'm gonna love them just because he turned out to be awesome. I know what I said.

I shouldn't have to tell you that the 'Boys sold over 100 million albums versus the mere 56 million that 'N Sync sold. I shouldn't have to tell you that they are the highest selling pop group ever. Some of you might contend that 'N Sync was actually more musically talented and that Backstreet has a more synthentic musical quality. Seriously...would I really be listening to either of these bands if I was really concerned about actual musical talent? I'll let each of their hit lists speak for themselves:

Backstreet Boys
1. "I Want It That Way"
2. "Everybody (Backstreet's Back)"
3. "As Long As You Love Me"
4. "Show Me the Meaning of Being Lonely"
5. "Quit Playing Games (With My Heart)"
6. "All I Have To Give"
7. "Larger Than Life"
8. "I'll Never Break Your Heart"
9. "The Call"
10. "Shape of My Heart"
11. "The One"
12. "More Than That"
13. "Drowning"

'N Sync

1."Bye Bye Bye"
2. "Girlfriend" (The Neptunes Remix featuring Nelly)
3. "This I Promise You" (Radio Edit)
4. "It's Gonna Be Me"
5. "God Must Have Spent a Little More Time on You" (Short Edit)
6. "I Want You Back"
7. "Pop" (Short Version)
8. "Gone"
9. "Tearin' Up My Heart"
10. "Thinking of You (I Drive Myself Crazy)"
11. "I'll Never Stop" (Radio Edit)
12. "Music of My Heart" (featuring Gloria Estefan)

But let's be honest. These guys are the best boy band ever.

Warm October Nights

When I first started blogging I wanted to make the titles of all my posts names of songs. Without realizing it I’ve kind of done it for these last two entries. Anyway, Wednesday night I went to Knott’s Scary Farm with several friends. You all know that I love Halloween right? It’s the most wonderful time in the whole world. Summer is pretty awesome, but I love all the sports, the change in weather, Halloween and scary stuff, black and orange, the smooth transition into the holiday season, everything that comes with the arrival of Fall. I think I’ve already enumerated the myriad reasons why this season is so great.

So Scary Farm was great. Good group, fun mazes. I get less scared in the mazes then I do with movies now. I’m a lightweight when it comes to scary movies these days. And the fact that I’ve been pretty good about no R-rated movies limits the amount that I can watch. Although 1408 was pretty awesome, and it scared the poop out of me. Stephen King, John Cusack, and the anticipation of horror are great ingredients for a good scary movie. But I digress…Knott’s was great. Again, I miss Greg and Laura terribly. Even everyone else, I feel like I never see those people anymore. On the outset of the evening I was thinking we’d leave at like 1 and that would be early, but little did I know that by 1130 I would have about as much energy as the not-so-into-their-job-characters that were working the mazes. Still though, good times.

Yesterday morning I was eating Honey Nut Cheerios and watching the ESPN report about Jason Ray, the Tar Heels mascot who was killed last year while walking along the highway. Here is the link again if you still haven’t read the story. Such an amazing story. Seeing his sweet parents and those people who literally owe their lives to that young man made me salt my cheerios with tears. That’s a funny sounding sentence. So good though.

Something that the story picked up on television that didn’t come across as much in the written article was the amount of faith that was on display from all those people involved. I guess it touches on it in the article, but it felt much more vibrant hearing and seeing the people talk about it all. I don’t know of anything more touching than stories of faith in the face desperate circumstances. Not the kind of faith that is defiant and arrogant, but the kind that is trusting, submissive, and patient. It is exquisite, don’t you think?

I really do love the people in my life. I know and associate with some of the finest. And in a total change of pace for the post, here’s my boy Andy doing his thing on SNL.

SNL - People Getting Punched Just Before Eating (Andy Samber
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Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger

Sometimes those electronic or industrial types of music are really cool. I remember going to a party a few months ago and there was an electronic song and I just loved it. Plus there was a guy there who had some great dance moves and I think that song is what inspired him the most. Isn't funny that there is just certain music that you just have to move to? It's like something else takes over and you just feel like moving to the beat. Even animals sometimes get into it. I love when little kids hear something and they can't help themselves. Anyway...

I love that the Indians are beating up on the Sox. They have reached Yankee status for me. They think they can buy their way into the World Series and I hate them for it. Plus they beat up on my poor Angels, but to be honest, we weren't going to win any series with the kind of hitting that we had in that Divisional Playoff Series. Still though...pretty disappointing. And the Rockies are a rollin'. I hope they sweep right through the whole thing. I came across this story yesterday on espn.com. Be prepared to be weepy. Sometimes journalism as a profession really outdoes itself. Most of the time I'm bothered by the media. It can be really seedy, as pointed out by Mark Steyn while on Hugh Hewitt's radio show:

I think, I have a low opinion of journalists, because I work with a lot of them,
and also because I don’t think of it as a profession, and I think the outrage
over things like that biography come because in America, this thing is perceived
as this, you know, almost slightly below Jeffery Toobin’s Supreme Court, nine
gods from Mount Olympus. But on the next level on the mountain are journalists
who’ve been to Columbia Journalism School, they’ve spent tons of money and years
of study to become ethical journalists. And of course, that’s not true. At a
certain level, it’s a job, you do what you have to do to get your foot in the
door, and to get the interview with the grieving widow. And if that means
telling her that you’re the milkman and you want to deliver her a couple of free
quarts of milk this morning, then you do that. And the fact of the matter is
it’s a grubby profession, it’s a foot in the door profession. And we get
confused about it, because of this silly idea that’s grown up in America that
it’s this lofty, ethical, great kind of calling, which it isn’t.

And then, in the case of that story about the guy who plays the Tar Heels mascot, it can be really touching.

I wish I had more interesting stuff to talk about. Tonight is Knott's Scary Farm. I can't believe how great the talks are from Conference. Just being in the right place and ready to hear council makes all the difference in the world. It's not like I haven't been inspired by other Conferences, but it never ceases to amaze me how personal the addresses can feel. They can be so specific and it's such an evidence of how intimately acquainted God is with our - my - personal circumstances. In a couple weeks Elder Quentin Cook is coming to reorganize our Stake Presidency and it is the same night as the Strung Out show that I've been anticipating for so long. Last night I was resolute in deciding not to go. This morning, not so much.

I forgot how much I loved Yellowcard's Ocean Avenue album. Discovering old music that you love is about as good as discovering new music.

We won our soccer game last night. We're actually doing really well. We won 6-1 and the two previous weeks we won 5-0 each week. I didn't even sweat the entire first half. It was a pretty boring game for me. Which makes it kind of disappointing that I'm not going to be playing tonight, but at the same time...yay! Halloween stuff! This is a lame post.

Some HR Stuff

Today I got a couple of fun resumes. Sometimes I get cover letters and I think these in general are always entertaining. I especially love lines like, "I'm the perfect candidate," or, "I have the exact skills and qualifications that you are looking for." Sure you do. Or, I love when a person opens with this line:

My name is Brian X and I am a 4th degree black belt in martial arts. I am highly interested in your position....enough said.

Who opens with a line like that? Or how about this in the text of a resume, and this is the exact text by the way, as it appears on the resume:

Personal details:
-Age- 59. 6-ft. 210 lbs. Works out. 136 IQ. Photo recent. (followed by a photo of him)
-Born/Raised- San Diego. Now live- Westminister, CA. Name...number...
-Education: 3 years- College. History/Philosophy. Private study/writing
equivalent to Doctoral Degree [Recent 2006 completion of 3-yr treatise].

Yup. All that stuff in his resume, and presented exactly in that manner. Then I had the pleasure of a conversation with a guy that was a personal reference for one of our employees. His voicemail message ends with something ridiculous like, "you have a positive, powerful day." I thought it was just a lame message, but it turns out that's how he actually talks. Our dialogue was something like this:

Me: Hello, this is Chris
Guy: Hi, this is Morris. I'm returning your phone call for Kristin. I was out of town. Sorry I couldn't get back to you sooner.
Me: Oh, thanks so much for calling back. I actually was able to get a hold of Jim over at Best Rate so she's all squared away. But thanks for taking the time to follow up and call me back.
Guy: Positive, positive.
Me: (Awkward silence...did he actually just say that?) Okay. Well, I appreciate you taking the time to call back. I won't be needing anything else.
Guy: Positive. Well, I just wanted to make sure you guys knew that I was inaccessible and that was the reason I didn't call back.
Me: Okay. Well...thanks? We've got everything we need. Thanks for following up.
Guy: Positive.
Me: Alright...You take care.
Guy: Positive, positive. You have a positive day.

No joke. That was our conversation. I really do love my job. I get to interact with so many different kinds of people, from the ones that we hire and I do orientation with to the ones that are just really kooky. It's all a really great time. Last Friday I actually interviewed a gay guy who was applying for one of our property director positions. How did I know that he was gay? He talked about how while in the military he discovered who he was and really came into his own. Then referred to his partner a couple of times and moving to Las Vegas to try and start a life together. The craziest part was that this guy had been up to 390 lbs. and was now down to 190 lbs. Can you imagine losing that much weight?

Interviews are so fun though because I can go in whatever direction I choose so long as it doesn't go into anything about that person revealing whether or not I'm judging them based on the person being in a protected class. And by the way, I think the only class that isn't protected is white males. That's the honest to goodness truth. Isn't that kind of crazy? Anyway, people are just so interesting though.

I Am J. Alfred Prufrock

This is the poem. I know that Dave is not a fan of T.S. Eliot, but I actually really think he's very cool. I've mentioned this before, but I've just been feeling very vulnerable lately and I think that's when I retreat into Prufrock mode. What I appreciate about the poem is that it is so wonderfully insecure. And that is the nature of his poetry in general. I guess when you live during a World War and through the Depression, that's the voice that you develop. He encapsulates the period perfectly, I think.

So anyway, maybe this is coinciding with my being really into musicals mood that I've been in. I was talking with a couple people about it today, but I think that I'm going through a gawky phase at 27 years old. It's kind of annoying, really. Sometimes life circumstances changes your playing field and you have to deal with circumstances and situations that you just haven't had to deal with for a long time. That's where I feel like I'm at - just out of practice with certain situations. I usually have no problem getting really close to people pretty quickly. But for the last year or two I haven't really allowed myself to get really close to knew people. I just pretty much have stayed close with the same people that I've always been close with. So now with certain people I'm starting to move them from one pool of friends to the next and I find that I'm out of practice and just plain goofy sometimes.

As I try and finish this post I keep getting distracted. So I'll just leave it here. It really does just take a lot of work to build and maintain relationships. I've been maintaining for so long that I haven't really been thinking a lot about building, but that's important too and I'm excited to start again. Even if I feel like a moron sometimes while doing it.

Some News From Iraq

I was reading some stuff and I wasn't going to post it at first, but there was a good number of articles and blurbs that I thought were really worth sharing. This has to do with the war and the direction that it has been heading in most recently. First, this post on the shift that is occurring among the citizens of Iraq, particularly the Shiite people. Then, the Associated Press reports on the dramatic decrease in deaths in Iraq. Next, one reporter commentates (I meant I what I said) on the political slant delivered by the mainstream media here. And finally, some more thoughts from General Sanchez about the mainstream media and the influence they exert on the delivery of the news, here.

If you don't remember or didn't hear, General Sanchez is the same person whose name was tied with blasting the presidency about its handling of the war in Iraq. However, after reading transcripts of what actually was said, you'll soon realize that is not the message that he intended to deliver. I don't just bring this up because I'm a conservative and it supports my ideology, but because this is what is really going on. You have to realize that the media has a very clear agenda and it is in opposition to the success of our country and to what most Americans hold dear. Please realize that most news that you digest that comes from major TV news outlets and newspapers are not unbiased and do report with a political agenda in mind. I know that most of you will probably not follow the links I provided, but this is important stuff to be aware of.

I'm going to digress a little bit, but I think you can appreciate what I'm trying to express. While at BYU, Dave had told me about a discussion that he had in one of his classes about the messages that are delivered through literature, movies, etc. I can't remember exactly what was said, but the message sent by that professor was that any time someone wants you to believe that a movie is just a movie or a book is just a story, then you are being carefully misled. Every spoken and written word will have an effect upon the recipient because it is a communication, because communication is essentially the deliverance of ideas. And whether you like it or not, you are being pulled in one direction or another by the message being conveyed. Then the professor gave an example of how when the movie Fight Club came out, at BYU campus where many of the students hold beliefs and ideas contrary to the message of the film, there were a few dozen incidents of students starting their own Fight Clubs. I think another film being spoken of in the class was the movie The Ring. That movie transmits to the viewer a story that has no real resolution other than just simply the perpetuation of evil. Think about it.

With the things that we see and hear on a daily basis, realize just how important it is to have a discerning spirit and to properly insulate yourself against untruth. Because there really is a battle being waged. Just know what side it is that you're being pulled towards, and also know that it is assailing you on all fronts, in everything that you see and hear.

Wicked

This is what I did last night. I first heard about Wicked from Becca's roommates and they were so enthralled, but not having heard anythin about the show before it just sounded kind of odd, like it had some kind of cult following that only certain people liked. Kind of like Rocky Horror Picture Show. But I should have known then that I would have liked it because I tend to like a lot of those quirky kind of things. Another friend of mine who has seen a good amount of shows said it was the best of them all and that when he first saw it, he was grinning from ear to ear the entire time. So there was a lot of build up for this one, but it came in just as advertised - AMAZING.

It was really smart. There were a lot of obvious attempts at humor like Galinda and her kind of brainless meanderings, and there were a lot of subtle things too. And it was all hits, no misses. I was surprised by not only how funny it was, but how much development there was with all of the characters as well. Just really clever stuff.

Last week I was talking about how I wanted to go and then the very next day at work we got a fax from a ticket broker letting people know that they had over-purchased for the show so they were selling the tickets at pretty much face value. So I got orchestra seats, just right of center and only 10 rows back. Plus...I just love the Pantages. I've been to the other big theaters in Southern Cal - the Ahmansson and the OCPAC - and I just love how different the feel is. Being that it was built by Howard Hughes, it has a really gawdy, ornate look to the whole thing. Plus, I love the Egyptian-influence deco that the place had, probably due to the then-recent escavations in Egypt. Very cool theater. I loved it all. I was pretty exhausted the entire time which seems to be the theme this week, but I couldn't fall asleep. Unlike Mamma Mia where I kind of drifted in and out during the show, this one kept me lit up. I feel like I was the last person to see it, but it definitely lived up to the hype. And some of the musical numbers gave me the chills. Of course, Defying Gravity was just electrifying. I literally wanted to cry, it was so good. So gay right now gushing over a musical...but it's the truth. It was great.

Yay Conference!

You know what's so amazing? how specific counsel can be when you've been prepping yourself to hear the words of the prophets. I only caught the Saturday and Sunday morning sessions, and the Priesthood session live and I'm currently working on the recorded afternoon sessions. But if you didn't already know, today is when they post online the text of all the talks.

I wish I had my notes so I can remember better what I really liked. I will say that going into conference I had several questions that I was looking for some very specific direction on and I felt like as I listened, I had a much clearer idea of what I needed to do. I think that's just amazing. From the first session, I really, really loved Elder Uchtdorf's talk. More specifically, his testimony at the very end. Usually that is the part where I kind of start to tune out because usually it's pretty generic, but he said some things about the Savior that really touched me. And what's more is that there were some very specific scriptural phrases that he used in his talk that I've really been focusing on this past year and it just felt very specific to me and the circumstances that I am currently facing. Also, how good was I Believe In Christ at the end of that morning session? That song came on when people started to get restless and chat more where I was watching it, but I was really touched at how beautiful the music was. It has been a while since I've been really moved by the music in conference, but that one really did it for me. It was also cool to see an elder from my mission in the MoTab.

Priesthood was really great as well. We went to a local stake center and my favorite part about the whole session was singing with a full chapel and the overflow in the gym High On A Mountain Top. It's just so different when you have a bunch of men singing. I don't know what it is. Maybe it's just a really neat feeling of solidarity with one another that can't really come in any other way. I enjoyed the talks for that session and was completely alert, but sometimes it's just so nice to not feel like the most pointed council is directed at you. I'm grateful some of those things aren't my struggles.

I really appreciated all the subtle tributes that the General Authorities gave to President Faust. I absolutely love Elder Eyring and am so excited to see him step up into that role. Mostly what I appreciate is being able to hear more of his council and thoughts. His talks have always felt very personal to me and I appreciate his approach. I'm not a Monson or Perry kind of guy. I'm more of the Holland, Bednar, Eyring persuasion, you know what I mean? What I'm saying is if they suddenly split off and formed their own branch of the church, I might consider going. But that would never happen so I'm not too worried about it. Bottom line - conference is amazing. When you open your heart, prepare for it, and are really seeking for the Lord to write upon the fleshy tablets of your heart, He's there. And in the most personal and intimate way. Of this I testify...

I Love The Dudes

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